Anonymous asked:
Can you explain to me why it isn't such a good idea for someone to date someone who is 20 years older? i mean like i kindof agree i just idk, i really like him. ya know. and we have all the same interests...i'm what you would call an old soul....:/ but i respect your opinion ashley :3 i wouldn't go to anyone else for advice!

I just think maybe the thought processes are more different. They’ve experienced much more. I have that problem with Kenny and he’s only 3 years younger. But I’m very excepting. Men usually get annoyed very quickly. Most men interested in woman 20 years younger and usually just looking for one thing. I mean hey I could be wrong. But I’m just using my judgement off past knowledge. Just be careful is what I’m really trying to say. 

-Ashley 


Anonymous asked:
what do you think about a girl dating someone who is 20 years older than her? :/

Probably not such a good idea :/

-Ashley 


Anonymous asked:
Can I get some advice?? You see my boyfriend always ignores my facebook messages. It bothers me even more now that FB tells you exactly what time a person has read the sent message.. So I finally was like .. why do you do that. He hasn't read it yet but because our relationship is new (2 months) how do i communicate how it hurts me when he ignores me, without making him feel like shit or starting a fight? What should I say?

You never know. Like sometimes I ignore my boyfriend when I’m on the internet, because I’m so caught up in what I’m doing. He’s not going to be perfect and be able to respond to you every single. There’s multiple things I like to do on the internet. And sometimes I just like my time alone ya know? Just ask him and see what he says just be like Im not mad I just want to know.

-Ashley 


Anonymous asked:
whats the best sex postion

Idk. I like them all. 

-Ashley 


Anonymous asked:
Im 16/m.. I have a gf 13/f. we are an amazing couple we click we have the same interests with same points of views. We've had sex before, and I talked to my dad about me and her how we were just 'hanging out'.. And he mentioned it's statutory rape if we had sex?! She's quite mature and I am too and we think we could decide to have sex. Considering her age, it's rape cuz 'she can't decide to be able to have sex. What are your thoughts on that? Different ages too. Like a junior dating a freshman?

Technically your relationship is statutory rape. She has to be 16 in order to have consent. But I mean, do her parents know you two are together. Because if they find out and don’t like it they can get you in a bit of shit. And my boyfriend is 16 in a week. And I’m 19. So age difference doesn’t mean much to me. It all really depends on the the two people and the age gape. But 13 really is very young. 

-Ashley 


Anonymous asked:
lmfao you're so f


Anonymous asked:
Your "engagement" is a joke. You and little emo boy need to escape this Internet life and get a reality check fast!


Anonymous asked:
I'm from a very conservative family. I am currently dating a colored person, and I love him dearly. But my family and friends from my church frown upon it, what should I do?

Explain to them that love shouldn’t matter with color, as long as you are happy. And they should support your decision because in the end they aren’t going to be choosing who you be with. And they never know, they could actually really like him as a person.

-Ashley 


Anonymous asked:
so i found out i have aids ;'(

Not sure what to say so: 

-Ashley 


Anonymous asked:
16 year old. I've met with him a few times and have flirted with him in person and he just kinda made his friend join the convo so I would stop. Hell the first time we met he brought his ex so I would be less likely to flirt. However he's slowly starting to warm up to the idea of kissing. I don't plan on trying to start a serious relationship with him its just hes not an annoying idiot like most of my age group and is interested.

I don’t know it’s really up to you. He seems like he really doesn’t want to push it. But you’re pushing him. If he doesn’t originally want you, why just push with acting flirty and sexual?

-Ashley